I am out of a very violent relationship my kids are now ages 24 and 29. I met someone else almost 20 years ago and it has been okay (although there have been episodes). Recently, my career has really taken off in a huge way and it seems its all starting again. I am so shocked. I am working overseas where we are being showcased by the UK government as an example of what can be achieved. Behind the scenes I am being shouted at by a large man. continually, he pours & throws his beer over me and tells me I am self centred. I am left in awkward situations with no way of getting home if he chooses. I do everything in the home and look after a child who is mentally ill. I am the major wage earner through my business. I feel chilled. My friend (he is working on this project) has a son that is seriously ill, so he has flown to france to be with him. We have all (on the team) said go be with him. We love you and are thinking of you. My other half has just gotten very angry and over the net. I am overseas. He has shouted at me and pulled the plug. This sounds like a whinge, but I feel awful. I feel exactly like I did before. If I please him it's fine, but it's becoming more and more difficult to please him. He seems to hate me.