I am 23yrs old and from 2008-2010 I was in an abusive relationship. I've suffered miss carriages, gashes to my head, bald spots and black eyes all while pregnant. It's one of the hardest things in life to do but you have to leave the situation. Tell your closest friend who is not friends with him and you need to leave. He must not have any contact with you at all. It is very scary but at 18 you should not be going throught this. I met my ex freshman year and we were a couple in my sophomore year. Like her story, the abuse escalated from verbal to physical. It started with yelling, then cursing, then pushing, then hitting my body but not my face. Finally, it ended with full blows to the face and head. The last beating was by far the worst because he took me to a dead end about 2am and beat me in the car. I saw a flash and nothin more. He pulled my pants of and had sex with me while choking me. I didn't know if I was goin to make it. This is someone I lost my virginity to. I was ashamed and scared like you but I had to promise myself that I would live to see the next year so December 2010 I let him go for good. Changed my phone number and cut all contact. I wish you the best. Please be smart
Nov 17, 2012
18 by: Anonymous
I am so sorry to hear that your getting abused. You need to tell your parents, and if you don't want to tell them go to a shelter. You don't deserve to be treated this way. Get out now. Tell anyone, and everyone please get help. Get to safety...
Nov 15, 2012
Im so happy for you by: Anonymous
I'm a teenager, 18, and in college. I'm living a nghtmare because I am living with my boyfriend who abuses me all the time. He scars me even. I feel like I am in danger. I feel he is going to kill me. I also feel so stupid for being with him. I feel like me letting this happen to me makes me a piece of shit . I never imagined he would do this to me. I am so afraid but i do not want to tell anyone. Im so scared for my life !!!
Nov 08, 2012
My story related to yours so much by: Anonymous
I got married to a monster also. When we got married the abuse got so much more worse. Your story really touched me. I felt like i was reading about myself. I also left my abusive husband and had to get a restraining order. but i can breathe and i'm free an happy.
Oct 22, 2012
You are a hero to your daughter! by: Anonymous
Thank God that you listened to your gut. What you did was not easy, and is still not easy. He is still trying to convince you that you are wrong - not him!! So typical. Your strength will grow, your happiness will grow and your life will grow. Your daughter will have a role model in you and will always be proud of you. YOU GO GIRL!
We hope you are well - everyday will seem brighter.
Oct 21, 2012
Questions by: Cassi
You can not get charged with kidnapping. You need to file first go to your courthouse, and get the contested divorce. Then you need to find someone who can serve him. It can be a sheriff or police officer. If you are fearful of your safety then don't tell him where your living at. You can figure out a way to let him talk to the child, but don't leave your state. My monster filed divorce on me the same day I filed on him. He now knows where I live, but he is only allowed to drop her off in the parking lot. It might also help to get a restraining order on him, and start the process now. Don't tell anyone where your living unless you know you can trust them. You can always write me anytime. Take care Cassi
Oct 21, 2012
Questions by: Anonymous
How do you plan on filing for divorce? Are you worried he will call the police to report you kidnapped your daughter? I'm worried about that if I leave.
Oct 19, 2012
Courage by: Anonymous
You are a very brave and courageous woman. It took a lot of guts to leave not knowing about your safety and well being. You must stay strong and stick with your belief of leaving the "Monster" and setting a good example for your daughter. Focus on yourself and daughter and your wonderful future together. You have so much to look forward to. Never, Ever, Ever allow someone to treat you like that again! Speak up and have confidence in yourself. You are blessed and a Hero for setting a positive example of standing your ground.