My husband beat me and have wound under my eyes by: Anonymous
I am married to my husband at Philippines last sept. 2013 and he was nice when he was in Philippines and work out my papers to be with him and now I am here things change he is living with his ex wife and when his ex wife away to work for 3 weeks he bring me in and I'm not allowed to stay outside so that neighborhood can't see me when his ex wife called I'm not allowed to talk cuz his ex wife doesn't know he was remarried in the Philippines and still love him so he is talking his ex wife very nice just not to get him out the house because of his things that he don't know where he put and he doesn't want to lose his things and start all over again do I agree and then every time he have problem or I make mistake a little he is angry and yell and swear at me like his facing a devil so I don't like to hear and told him why you can't talk nice to me but you talk very nice to your ex wife and he is angry and pissed every time I say that until he chocked me many times and last time I was scared I die I cannot breath and painful my neck I grab his balls to get away but he punch me on my eyes and wound under my eyes and brush my nose and eyebrows and he keep threatening me to send me in the airport and I don't know if his friend will give my social security number when arrive at his friends house as my address used his friend address and he rented me a room in the next street so I can come up when his ex wife go to work because his on workmen compensation because he has accident on his job.
Aug 13, 2014
Similar boat by: Anonymous
My husband has been abusive on and off for 30 years. Mostly verbal, but several physical altercations. The most recent last year, he would have killed me had my (very big, strong) son not stepped in and saved me cracking his dad's ribs to get him off me. I sent him to jail, it cost him 10K in bail and lawyers. The problem; I have no means of survival without him. They money he provides is more important than my hate for him and I do despise him.Since the arrest we've been together and he blew his top recently, I could see it was leading to another altercation and I remembered something my ex-marine father taught me, "When someone acts insane, act MORE insane then them!" I went ballistic screaming at him, yelling if he touched me he would go to prison and I'd be the one to put him there. IT'S A MATTER OF TIME BEFORE I'M GONE. But honestly I just need money (I am chronically ill) and a place to take my 2 dogs, I wouldn't think of leaving them behind. These bastards don't deserve a 2nd chance and I am 20yr Christian! God does not approve!1 Peter 3:7
May 10, 2013
I need help by: Anonymous
I'm in a similar situation only my husband doesn't beat me, but he's almost killed me by pinning me down and smothering me and threatening to break my neck. All because we were fighting and I said I was leaving. I am helpless against him, he's 250 lbs ex-marine and I'm a 110 lb girl that has never even been in a real fight before. I'm so scared I don't know what to do. I would leave if it were just me and he would never even see me ever again but we have 3 children so I know I will have to see him again. He said if I leave him he will kill me. I'm scared he's going to kill me so what do I do? Just except that I'm probably going to die by the hands of the person who I love and thought would never hurt me?
May 01, 2013
You were not his love of his life by: Anonymous
You seem deluded to think that he loved you and then not press charges? I think your brain has been brain washed by him and I think with time you will have a normal out look on life. Right now you talk and act like a victim who was controlled.
Mar 20, 2013
The Dog by: Anonymous
As an animal lover, i have to ask what happened to your dog?
Oct 12, 2011
I thank you by: Anonymous
I love how you finally had the courage to let everyone know what was going on. It's a good thing to know that you took the answers to God and let everything get handled by itself instead of by the courts.
Jun 29, 2011
escaping the monster i call my husband by: Anonymous
I would like to thank you for sharig this. There are a lot of women out here including myself that goes through this. I feel our abusers do need help instead of prison, but what if they have been to prison and did the anger management course and know how to maniplinate the system. So what do we do about those kind of abuser's?
Jun 29, 2011
my husband the monster by: Anonymous
I would like to thank you for writing this. I also dont believe in calling the police, prison isn't always the answer. They do need intensive help. The person i'm with went to anger management - didnt help it. He brags about manipulating the program. I tell him that I really do care, but just because i'm not going to call the police doesn't mean you continue the abuse. Take it as a second chance to pull it together, just because we won't call - somebody else will!!!