Hi Kathy, I’m taking a woman studies class and my class just recently discuss the topic of domestic violence. I would like to congratulate you from walking away from a domestic violence relationship. From what I learn your abuse could lead to something much worse. I am sorry to read that no family member was around to help you out. It makes me sad that none of your family members checked up on you after you married your first husband. I was wondering have you ever considered going to the police? Once again I’m glad you found someone that doesn’t believe in abusing women. Best wishes to you.