I have been in my abusive relationship for 18 years. I am 44 years old and have a 3 year old son i adore and thank God for everyday. I am so scared and controlled i find it hard to do anything without thinking there will be consequences. This makes it extremely hard to enjoy life with my son, friends and family. I feel stuck and don't want to leave for fear for family left behind. I need help but, am scared of the unknown and what he may do. I also feel like i am betraying my partner, which seems crazy to me to. Thank you for sharing and inspiring me to take the first step.
Aug 17, 2013
Response to you story by: LEI C.
Thank you for writing your story. The hardest thing is that initial step of break or leaving. I am glad you did. I did the same thing by going to the court and filed for a Domestic Violence Restraining Order for my abusive husband to move out. My kids are still in forester care due to domestic violence. I allowed this to go on for 14 years. I look forward to the days me and my kids are free and can live our lives the way we wanted without abuse, violence and anger. I thank God each day for bring me to this point.