There are times when you do not know what a person will do to you,but your gut instinct will tell you ,leave when you get a chance,do not go back in danger,everything else in this world is replaceable. You owe yourself love,respect,and dignity.
Oct 11, 2014
They dont change by: Anonymous
I read your story and it's very similar to yours my dad was very strict, belt and all. I married very young. I don't know what I was thinking I thought I was in love, but now I've been married 15 years and very unhappy. We used to have the perfect marriage supposedly, but behind close doors things were different. I was very submissive if he didn't like the way I did things he slapped me, or throw me across the room. We had our first son and things were good for a good while. But it always became so easy for him to raise his hand at me. He always apologized and cried such a coward. I have never told anybody but my oldest and middle children have seen him hurt me. He has bitten my lip and hurt me pretty bad. I am so tired and drained I have asked him to move out and he won't. We live in one of my father's rental and I can afford to live alone. I just don't know how to get him out of here. Please do not settle for this jerk they don't change I am now 33 years old very unhappy and drained.
Aug 15, 2014
...leave, please by: Anonymous
...sister, please leave. Tell your dad and go home to your moms. He will never change. Get out now while you are young ...
Jul 02, 2014
Thanks by: Danica Gale
Thanks so much for sharing. Yours is such a sad story but these things happen SO often! I was in an abusive relationship as an adult and it is VERY hard to deal with. People who have never experienced it have no idea how it just creeps into your regular, everyday life. Read my blog, if you'd like. It may help. http://torn-whybatteredwomenstay.com It's another blog about what you've been through, especially dealing with narcissism and abuse. Best of luck!